30 something MILF seeking a friends with benefits relationship

A lot of women in their 30s are still partying and hooking up with different guys every day, but that is not what I am looking for! What I am looking for is a “stable” and reliable guy in his 30s maybe early 40s who wants a real partner, not just a bimbo or a trophy! I would like to meet a real gentleman who will treat me the way I treat him, so if you guys are interested in a serious relationship, please let me know so we could date and get to know each other a little more!